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Intercourse and Condoms?

Okay… So here it goes… So I just turned 14 a few days ago, and I have been having these… Urges, if you know what I mean. My parents are open with me about Sex and Condoms, but it is so awkward for me to tell them. They say that as long as I wear a condom, I should be okay for intercourse. But they always use the key words, “When you are ready”. I have a boyfriend who is also my age, and we are very into each other (I know that sounds sooo stupid, what do 14 year olds know about love?) And we have talked about taking it to the third base. This was both our ideas, so no one is being pressured. But we both also agreed that we weren’t going to do anything until we got hold of Condoms! I live in a small town, where everyone knows everyone, so I can’t just walk into a store and buy a condom… I don’t even know if they sell them! I need a way to get my hands on a few, but I have no idea how! And I don’t think I can tell my parents… That would make it so awkward and difficult, but… Aaaargh! Please! I am not new to masturbation, and I need this time with him! (I know that also makes me sound childish, but I think I am mentally ready. So, anyone have any ideas? Thanks sooo much! And please no put downs or negative comments, I am a very self concious person.

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Answer #1

in a lot of ladies toilets they sell condoms , try that

Answer #2

try getting a hold of someone who buys condoms. (older age friend or anyone you know who is sexually active) and ask them if they could do you the favor of picking up some extra ones. maybe ask your boyfriend to get some or as him if he knows anyone who can buy it for him. and if nothing works just go buy some lol there’s no shame in buying birthcontrol. at least you’re being safe

Answer #3

hmm we have this little vending machine outside the local corner store sell likes advil and stuff but it also has condoms so yea.. or like they said get an older friend

Answer #4

Thanks for the advice guys! Im still looking for more suggestions if you have ‘em, but I do know someone who is sexually active, and a very good older friend.

Answer #5

school nurse always has them, if you wait until your 15 you have yet more sex classes (I;ve had them since I was 11) and you have to put condoms on bananas and you get as many as you want, and yeah I have those urges a lot but I have no one to f*Ck

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