Inspired Sister to Get Pregnant!

I’m 16 and pregnant with twins. :) I’m really happy, and I keep telling my family that, so my almost 13 year old sister wanted to see for herself, and now she’s pregnant. It’s all my fault, and I don’t know how to confront anyone about it. I haven’t talked to anyone since I found out.

Answer #1

you cant blame it on yourself

Answer #2

I don’t think either of you should have gotten pregant though it wasent your fault that your 12 year old sister got pregnant…u do need to tell your family if she wont it dosent matter if she gets mad at you because your should be a good role model and set a agood example beacuse now she is prego. and she didnt even love the guy she did it with she just did it because you did…and trust me your happy now but enjoy it while it lasts because babys are a wonderful thing but not at your age and exspecially not at your sisters age..thhis is gonna cause a lot of stress and problems for you and your family because you have to make bigg descions here its gonna be hard for either of you to get jobs and money and for you both to eeven finish school…but this wasent your fauult but you could have talked to her about why you were happy and explained to her not to do the same because she is to young..eve though you are too young to. you need to tell your fam. though the later the worse the sooner the better

Answer #3

I agree with anonymous115.

Your irresponsible acts ruined both your and your sister’s life.

Answer #4

youngest pregnancy on record I think is a 8yo juring nazi germany: anyway

she must tell her parents and get her arse to the quacks…

the longer she leaves it the worse it will become at least at the moment she has the opportunity of a termination

I dont agree with them at all but, well, its her choice

Answer #5

12/13 years old is not good timing in becoming a mother. Even if it has become clinical safe for children to give birth to children, the society in general does not sustain the requirements of such possibility thus far (even though children does reach puberty earlier and earlier on), because the adolescence mother needs special care in being able to fulfill her mothering wish. However, if she is pregnant, steps ought to be taken pro the new life with sound solutions. Abortions should be the last way out even for 12 years expectant mother if she wants the baby, because an unwanted abortion then could make a deep emotional split between her and the family beyond hope of healing.

Answer #6

Oh my God! dennissaywhaa Quit preaching!!!

its not your fault that she decided to do the same thing

I might have been that no one was paying attention to her so she decided to get pregnant so your family would notice her. And its her place to tell your family, but try your best to get her to tell as so as possible, the longer it goes the worse its going to be. But support your sis.

if you have any other questions you can fun mail me ill try to help.

Answer #7

WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS??!?!?! 2 kids, under the age of 18, and both are pregnant!!! OMG, if you want to blame someone its them.
I wish you the best of luck, because your life will never be easy again. You need to tell someone about her being pregnant so that it can be taken care of. Whether that means adoption or otherwise, she (and YOU as far as I’m concerned) has no business being a parent yet.

Answer #8

I know it feels like your fault, but it isn’t. You didn’t mean for your sister to go get pregnant. You were just happy about you being pregnant. Being pregnant at a young age isnt easy (Im in the same position). However, it happens. You shouldnt be upset if you cant change it. So, being happy is okay. Your sister took it the wrong way. Dont isolate yourself. Whats done is done. Help her get through it now. Just be there for her.

Answer #9

Yeah I’m pregnant also just not with twins. && I’m sixteen. I wouldn’t say that it is your fault but that is prettty awesome. I’m verrry happy for you kids are very joyful :)

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