in love with two girls...?

Stop the madness!

First of all, if you aren’t feeling comfortable in your relationships you need to take a step back and think about what you really want and need.

You say that you’re in love but you say your relationship is lacking something. if you are really serious about this girl that you have to look at what isn’t working and put the time and energy into that. Problems in a relationship don’t just solve themselves, you’ve got to work at them. By running around with another girl you’re avoiding the real issues and aren’t being fair to your girlfriend. If you love her then prove to her and yourself that you’re doing your best to make this work. If you don’t then don’t string yourself or her along with a pack of lies just because you’re comfortable.

As for the girl you’re coaching. This is really unethical of you and I suggest either ending this relationship right away by keeping in on the court or simply not coaching her anymore. You can’t do both. It’s one or the other. You owe this to you and to her. Let me point out that the more you spend time with her the more you seem confused about your relationship and feelings. This is why I suggest not seeing her for awhile and taking the time to think about your current relationship. It isn’t healthy to confuse yourself by fantasizing. You really need to face reality here. If not you might end up getting hurt and hurting others.