What do I do if I like my boyfriend and my ex?

I think im in love with two guys..and i dont know what to do…bc in high school all you get is drama bullshit and it never stops. and its like no matter what you do someone will always talk crap about you. and idc..i just think you should be able to like who you want right? well im dating a guy right now..who is amazing…but my ex bf…i just cant get him out of my head…i was so in love with him…and now its like i can never feel that way again…i say “i love you” to the guy im with, b/c it feels like i do..i just dont think i can ever feel as strongly about the guy im with..as my ex…~!~!~~ Any advice????

Answer #1

ok well being in lov with 2 ppl is normal (Happened to me)…so if you have an amazing BF then you have2 stop thinkin bout your ex then youll do better. obsorb yourself with your current BF. If you still think about your ex then mabe your with the wrong guy.

Answer #2

You need to get over it. It’s done. You broke up. A first love is RARELY your only love. Futhermore, it’s not fair to your current boyfriend to pretend that you’re committed to him, when you’re really saving all your personal intimacy for your “rose-coloured-glasses” ex.

Time to admit that it’s over and move on. Now, be nice to your current boyfriend before he decides that you’re hopelessly devoted to a lost cause and he, too, lets you go.

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