How can i improve my brother's attitude?

I once noticed a similar change in a very good friend who had always been non-aggressive, well behaved and very polite. He suddenly started to use foul language, throw his weight around, and generally be unpleasant company. Though at that point at appeared he was not really fully aware of how bad he had become.

I told him I felt that something was wrong because he was behaving like a totally different person and asked him if anything was troubling him.

He almost immediately broke down, and actually cried. He told me all his problems ….. (there were many, including that he himself was being badly bullied both physically and emotionally and that he felt he just could not cope with it anymore),

Talking the matter through with him seemed to help immediately as far as his “attitude” was concerned, and he cut back dramatically on the aggression and bad language. But it took a lot of effort from several people to help him sort out the underlying problems in his own life.

Your brother may have similar problems, so I hope you all don’t follow the Librarian’s advice and have him kicked you (at least not just yet).

If you try to find out what (if anything) is bothering him, you may be able to help him revert to his previously amiable personality.

– Good luck - Majikthise.

depends is it caused by like anything mental or physical or anything hes not getting enough of did he lose a relationship did he have a nervous breakdown is he just being a mean person is he failing classes anything to bother him in that way?

umm he broke up with his long time girlfriend a couple months ago and my mom thinks that probably affected him but idk.

I agree, I had the same problem about a year ago…it happens when you just bottle things up and don’t tell anyone about it. Everyone needs someone to talk to at some point no matter how strong you are.