How do you do this important stuff?

I’m sorry but it sounds like this dude is just in it for the nookie.. how long have you guys been together? you should know that some guys just want one thing and once they get it they either leave you and break your heart or use you and hurt you again and again.. It is very very painful and you shouldn’t do anything until your ready to handle the worst..

In a previous comment you posted on a question you said that you had a baby!?

Do things that you are comfortable with, and not with what people are asking you to do.

If you have to ask us how to do it, then you’re not ready. We can’t walk you through this. We don’t know what you like or what your boyfriend likes. People like different things in bed. If you’re ready to do it, then you’re ready to communicate and experiment with him, not with us.

You should also know about STDs before getting into anything sexual.

So my advice would be to wait a bit. Do some research about sexuality and wait until you are completely comfortable with the situation and your partner.

Props to you igeek!!

Hun>hes happy because hes going to be getting some action! Hes not a good boy to go out with. He only wants one thing. You are wayy too young to be getting into the sexual scene! Wait until you are much older, and can understand the real meaning of what a relationship is. This boy doesnt care about you..cuz if he did, he wouldnt be so anxious about his needs. He will only have made you feel used, when you two are no longer together!

Me being a guy, you can either listen to me or be devastated.

Dump him. This anxious at this age? Woah. S*x anxious guys are bad news, especially at or around 13 years of age. Hel|, even a slight touch at this age is bad news. Keep your virginity. Savor it. It is yours. Don’t let it be torn from you. Save your body for someone who will respect it and respect you as a person. Get him out of your life. Its the least you can do for yourself.