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I just got fingered for the first time

Ok so I just got fingered for the first time and my vag hurts and im bleeding…I know this is normal but when does it stop?

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Answer #1

I don’t understand how THAT could happen “by mistake” - you certainly should not be allowing people to touch you unless it is in a controlled, understanding, and mutually wanted way/environment.

It sounds like you were treated too roughly hence the bleeding and soreness. The bleeding should not be a lot though (if it is, you need to see a doctor) and should be over by tomorrow, but the soreness can linger for days to a week.

Make an informed decision next time, and for God’s sake do not be scared to say the word “gentle”!

Answer #2

and thank you bree I just realized what you were saying..I just dont use that term.

and for anyone else I thought this was an advice site, not a critic site

Answer #3

Yeah, if you’re that ignorant and naive, you shouldn’t be fooling around with anybody until you’re informed. Leave the sex type stuff to the grown ups.

Answer #4

Uhm it shouldnt be bleeding, the pain just by fingereing should just be sore and with a tiny bit of pain not that bad. Go take a hot bath and see from there. Maybe your just on your rag

Answer #5

whats a rag? sorry im not really filled in on all this stuff. ah I feel so stupid hah

and it definately hurts haha

Answer #6

the bleeding could either be from him sratching you, going to rough or your hymen broke

Answer #7

How exactly did it happen by accident?? There is no way that you could be bleeding that intensily and your that sore if it was by accident. It obviously went in really deep and for an extended amount of time. He probably just scratched you or put in more fingers than you think. Be more informed please and always be aware of what is happening to you while being intimate.

Answer #8

Unfortunately we have some jerks in here so just ignore them.

Answer #9

id like to go ahead and say that the whole situation happened by mistake!

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