Im the other woman

What should I do? I met this guy. We have a child toather, but he is with somebody else and they been togther 4 13 years. His girlfriend dont know nothing about me. I know her and I know where she work. I dont think he is going to leave her or tell her we have a baby. What should I do

Answer #1

Knowing that you are the other woman should eat at you from the inside out…if it doesn’t, there’s something wrong. You need to think of the things that you’re doing and ask yourself “IS this something I would want my child doing?” or “Is this something I’d want done to my child?” Chances are the answer is NO. Sue is right, he’s using you and isn’t taking care of his responsibility to your child, because he doesn’t feel he has to. He won’t ever leave his grl, and even if he does, it won’t be for you, because you have a child and that would require him to grow up, and apparently he just doesn’t want to do that. Good luck. Funmail me if you need to talk more. Tiffani

Answer #2

You need to stop seeing him. What would you do if your husband was keeping something like this from you and he had a kid with some other woman? How would you feel? Terrible. Get over the fact that he is with her. If he was going to tell her, don’t you think he would have already?

Answer #3

Dear bubbles125, Okay, it’s time to wake up…he is with her, not you. He will never leave her but he is responsible for support of this child you share. You must go after him for this money. If you are still with him and having sex STOP! He is using you and what kind of role model is this for your child? You know what you have to do, it’s not all about you now but about teaching your child to be strong and independent. I also feel sorry for his girlfriend who YOU and he deceived. Take a good look at your life, it’s time to start fresh and be the person you really want to be. Not the door mat or the other woman but the strong, loving mother you are. Sue…good luck

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