What do I do while his finger is inside me?

Yeah I’m in the same boat. My boyfriend wants to finger me and I don’t know what to do while his finger is in there I personally think it would be embarrasing to moan but I don’t know I need help too!!!

Do what ever fells right if he love you he want care

just tell him that.. but while he’s doing it, just enjoy it, let out a few moans, make out, grab onto something.. ask him what he’d like for you to do too if you plan on going farther

Just because hes not a virgin, doesnt mean he has to throw his experience at you. If he truly cared about you, he wouldnt be pressuring you into letting him take advantage of you. Hes not respecting your feelings, and thats more important, than trying to figure out what you should do when hes getting his kicks off you. You need to wait a lot longer than 3 mos. to start doing sexual things. It seems hes only in it for what he can get.

im in the same situation .. thank you for everyones advice / x

believe me, you will have no time to think when he is fingering you! your emotions will do whatever they do! but just enjoy it because it feels great. just relax, breathe and have fun and dont worry because it will all come naturally to you!

I don’t necessarily agree with people saying that he’s “using you” by trying to finger you. It’s part of what happens in a relationship and it’s generally the first step towards sex. So go with it. There’s no right and wrong way to react, and trust me, if he’s doing it properly you won’t need to think. Your reactions will happen naturally and chances are you won’t be thinking about that anyway. A lot of girls have this worry before someone fingers them for the first time, but soon get over it. One thing I must point out though is that he should take it gently and gradually if it’s your first time and if it hurts TELL HIM. The whole point of fingering a girl is to give her pleasure so he’ll want to find the best way for you.

I don’t necessarily agree with people saying that he’s “using you” by trying to finger you. It’s part of what happens in a relationship and it’s generally the first step towards sex. So go with it. There’s no right and wrong way to react, and trust me, if he’s doing it properly you won’t need to think. Your reactions will happen naturally and chances are you won’t be thinking about that anyway. A lot of girls have this worry before someone fingers them for the first time, but soon get over it. One thing I must point out though is that he should take it gently and gradually if it’s your first time and if it hurts TELL HIM. The whole point of fingering a girl is to give her pleasure so he’ll want to find the best way for you.

just enjoy it dear.. if you feel like moaning then moan.. it also helps if you let him know that you are enjoying what he is doing to you.. you can also squeeze your boobs, rub your clit or insert a finger as well. you’ll enjoy it. trust me. just relax and have fun!:)

There isn’t a set thing that you have to do when being fingered, and if he didn’t keep trying you would never tell him “please go on.” That’s not something girls are comfortable with and the guy probably knows it. If it feels good you should probably automatically breathe deeper or make a noise, but don’t fake it, or he’ll never know what you like. Which isn’t good for you.

Just enjoy it.. they only enjoy doing it if they know you’re enjoying it.. its kinda easy when its happening tbh. I’ve only had it twice and it was better the second time and it just kinda happened while we were kissing and it felt right to be happening. honestly just go with it and if its not comfortable then tell them to pull out.. not difficult at the time : ) X

I need help with this too..! how is he gonna get it wet before he does it? how do boys get you wet?

hun, it all comes naturaly. you dont need to worry. when you feel ready. you need to tell him. and if your not ready DO NOT let him do it. when he finaly does it, you will feel good, and everything else youve been wondering will finaly be answered :)