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im so confused pleze help!!!

me and my baby daddy been together for sum years now but I feel like we`re falling off ..like we dont have a sex life and we argue a lot…and the only reason were together is because of are newborn baby…I love him 2 death I just feel we need a little break were both young we need just some space …we have lived with each other for about 2 years now and spend everyday with each other… its hard…I just need 2 miss him …what do yall think?

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Answer #1

you guys need to talk it out, get all your problems out on the table, then start working through them without yelling or fighting. Once you can talk about things without fighting you are on the right path.

Taking breaks is the new train of thought, and lead to divorce, or cheating. YOU CAN FIX THIS. He needs a few hours alone time a week to play games, music, whatever he enjoys, just like a few times a week he needs to watch the baby so you can toodle doing something you enjoy.

Once a week, get someone to watch the kid so you and him can do something, anything- go for a drive, but you have to talk and connect.

Remember he is a guy, and guys need to fix problems and rescue you. Don’t nag or yell, talk to him like an equal. Start jumping his bones like he is Vin Diesel, as often as you think he wants it for a while- You will FREAK at the difference this makes in him. When he comes home from work, smile at him, don’t cry at him or dump on him, do that later in an enviornment suitable. Be someone YOU would like to come home to.

You guys have to start connecting daily, even for just a bit.

Don’t give him problems he can’t fix, it makes men despair. Make sure you have a g/f you can dump on, guys can handle some of it, but not all of it, everyday.

Remember it is about the baby now, and you owe it to her/him to make it work.

Hope this helps.

Answer #2

well mi suggestion is that you and him sit down together and you discuss how you feel and see how he reacts and also see how he feels about the situation…it will take time for it to heal and get better…also having a young child will also need to come into the case if both of you decide to end the relationship…

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