Im scared about being fingered

I am assuming the doctor meant your okay health wise, but you might think you going to be unattractive to your mate or something? Look, I’m guessing your boyfriend is in his teens so he probably wouldn’t even know what “normal” is and wouldn’t care anyway. I am always self-conscious because I have what I consider to be a large labia, but not one guy I have been with has cared or even acted weird about it. All they care about is being with you, not what it looks like. I am not saying this about all guys this is just in general really. And as for calming your nerves. don’t think about or worry about all the possibilities, be grateful and excited about the experience. It’s so fun learning and experimenting to find out what you like and what feels good, and when it’s happening you are not going to be sitting being scared or nervous. You’ll probably be loving the pleasure ! :)

To calm your nerves, you should be optimistic. Meaning you should feel positive about this and feel good. I don’t think it’s a big deal if you’ve already had sex but if not then it’s all up to you. It’s your body, and up to you to decide whether or not you’re going to let your boyfriend finger you and touch you like that. Think about how good it’s going to feel, and if you say that it will make you different from all the other girls. I don’t think you are because every girl most likely will have sex and be fingered and do all these other great stuff someday. It’s just that you’re progressing as a sexually active woman then these other girls.

You will be different to other girls, and thats a good thing. Make sure you’re not feeling pressured into anything and you’ll be fine. Enjoy.

If the doc says your a’okay down there then you must be … I mean he must see a lot of them haha …he’ll know ;)

xxx