Im pregnant BUT my boyfriend.

I also got pregnant when I was 18 and went thru this same exact situation with my daughters dad ( I had her when I was 19 ) she is now two and I’m 21. I love my daughter with every piece of my heart and soul! . Her father on the other hand also tried to talk me into an abortion but then said it was all my choice, later said he would be there no matter what, so I had my daughter and a month later he left for his ex girlfriend. It broke my heart, he doesnt pay child support ( I have signed the paper work 4 times already, and nothing…) , he is supposed to take her every other weekend since he doesnt pay anything, but never does. and WHENNN I CANNN talk him into takin her for a few hours every two - three weeks I am the one taking diapers, wipes, food, clothes, milk and toys for her?… ( ughh , its so frustrating ) but if your man is in the Navy, he should have a good head on his shoulder and will deffinently help you!. (Which is amazing!, dont take it for grantid) Enjoy that . I wish you the best of luck. and I promise no mater what , you’ll be ok.

HAVE YOUR BABY IS A PICE OF YOU AND HE NEED TO BE A MAN IF HE HAD THE GUTS OF HAVING SEX WITH YOU NOW HE NEED TO BE A MAN AND STEP UP AND HELP YOU OUT. HE KNEW WHAT COULD HAPPEN IF YOU HAD SEX. TELL HIM TO HELP YOU. BUT DONT KILL YOUR BABY YOU HAVE THE GIFT OF HAVING A BABY WHILE OTHER WOMENS TRY BUT DONT GET PREGNANT GOD SEND YOU YOUR BABY TO TAKE CARE OF HIM AND PROTECT HIM.TAKE CARE OF THAT GIFT

I think it’ll work out if you have the baby. Tell him you wanna keep it, I mean its your chose rite?? From what I’ve heard, The mother automaticly love the child even before birth. And I’m pretty sure that deep down, he will love the baby too. Its apart of both of u.
If you love the baby, He will begin to love it too. :) Good Luck with your baby & Congrats!!!

It is YOUR choice, not his, but I hope he sticks with you and supports your decision.

If you want all options presented to you, go to Planned Parenthood, but it sounds as if you have ruled out every option except keeping and raising the baby. TALK TO YOUR MOM. Let her know about the whole situation. You will need as much support as possible to get through this rough time.

Good Luck!!

tell him that you think hes ready and that you dont want an abortoin or to giver him/her away…its your chioce hun, and you might be freaking out because your only 18, but you and him will fall in love with the baby trust me. once you have your baby you guys will be happy you did…if you think about a young kid in your family that you think is so cute,then piicture your life without that child…cant can you? you may be having a little girl or little boy and you will be happy you did lol.,good luck and congrats!

Maybe he is scared and maybe he’ll come around and realize that he wants to try to make things work. it just takes time… I was 18 when I got pregnant with my first child and when he was 4months old I got pregnant again by the same guy..I ended up raising my kids by myself until I met this wonderful man (my husband now) 2 years ago…My kids daddy has been seeing them from time to time now and he realized that he missed out on a lot and thats not what he wanted. Its not easy to raise kids alone but you can’t make the guy stick around if he don’t want to…If I can do it so can you..its hard don’t get me wrong, I honestly don’t know what you can tell him to make him understand that he made this child to not just you .but you gotta try and say something…IAbortion is wrong and so is giving up your child…I hope you all can stay together and work things out.