What if I love someone other than my husband?

I’ve been with the same guy for the last 9 and a half years. I have 3 children. Im 28 years old. I meet this guy 5 years ago. His parents live across the street from me. His wife left him and his children for another man. I was their for him as a friend anytime he needed me. I became very close to him and his children. Im also very attracted to him like no one else. He decided he was going to get back together with his wife and move. I was happy for him and his kids. Once he moved I realized I was in love with him. I felt lost. All of a sudden he moves back. Without his wife. All those feelings came to surface hes been back for a year now and I can’t wait to see him nor talk to him. My legs shake when I see him. My heart pounds when I talk to him. I don’t no what to do. Let these feelings go or go with them??

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Answer #1

If you cared about your husband then I don’t think you would be asking what you should do. Or who you should pick. So maybe tell your husband about this or maybe seek marrital counseling. Or if you truly love someone else, get a divorce. If you aren’t in love with your husband anymore, then what’s the point in leading him on? Why not let him find someone who really loves him? He should be able to be happy too.

Answer #2

You have made a commitment to your husband.. If your marriage is important than cut off any contact with this guy across the street.. Leave it alone..

if your marriage and the loyalty to your husband is not important.. than im not sure why you are married still.

Answer #3

I totally agree with ash23

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