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im in trouble and I don't know what 2 do

I use 2 talk 2 this guy that I reallly liked but I never messed with him we just kissed. we stopped talking for a while because he got back with his girlfriend. but he started talking to me again and we astarted texting each other again and we started liking each other again. he and his girlfriend have been having problems from the day they started getting back together and shortly after they got back together we bacame friends again and now we really like each other its to the point where he told me that he loves me and I love him to. but da problem is I love him sooooo much that I cant even explain. and im pretty sure he loves me 2 but the fact is that he has a girlfriend that he also loves (I think) and they been together so long that he wont break up with her. I realize I am being unfair to myself and I tried to stop talking to him and he was really really sad the wohle day. I cant stop I love him to much. what do I do. is it better for me to stop talking to him or should I jus keep going since I have for this long already?

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Answer #1

Obviously you love him way more than he loves you. See, when you really love someone, you are not selfish and therefore want to give your all to that one person. If he’s with someone else, he can’t give his all to you. He’s giving his love to his girlfriend and you’re getting his sloppy-seconds loving. And if he really really really do love you, then its better that he just leave his girlfriend because you can tell him the longer he’s with her the harder her heart will break. Anywho- I think you should leave him alone. Maybe him and his girlfriend are having a hard time being together because you are in the way. If you were out of the picture, he may realize that he dont love you but his girlfriend ONLY. I know this isnt what you wanted to hear, but its better than your feeling growing and growing and then later he decides to end it with you. Or on the bright side, if you leave him alone to be with his girlfriend, he may find that all he can think about is you….and its really YOU that he wants in his life, and this will make it easier for him to break up with his girl. And as far as him being sad for you not talking to him, don’t worry about that- he’ll get over it.

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