What if I could treat her better than her boyfriend?

tell her that, tell her that you would do any thing for her and that you think he could do better you’ll never know how much a girl would want to hear those word’s. if nobody say’s any thing nothing will happen(one dose’nt talk +the other dose’nt talk=nothing.

i kinda understand but all u could do is let her know about your fellings and tell that u are a firend who is gion be there in her time of need but otherwise give it time unfautlay thtas the best advice i can give u cause i still git to face my proplem and its kinda like yours hope it all works out for you best of luck

Dear lucidlover, Continue chatting with her and being there for her. If this relationship she has with this other guy breaks up she may need a strong shoulder to cry on. Remember at that point she is needing a friend not another “guy” but a friend. All relationships should start out as friendships and if she feels the same way about you later on she’ll let you know. In the mean time you need to also be dating others and getting on with that part of your life…we can never make anyone fall in love with us no matter how much we love them if they don’t feel the same way. Sue…good luck