im being bullied

there is this girl at school who bullies me but she only does it in science because im literally alone in that class during sport she came up to me and my friends and she told me that her group think its fun bullying me. that really annoyed me and mum told me to just laugh at them and make them feel stupid. will that work? what should I do? please help me!! (and dont tell me to ignore them because it doesnt work)

Answer #1

advice saying stuff like your annoying stop bothering me

does not work…I know from experience. from ALL the bullies in my lifetime. it sounds like many of you have never gotten bullied..( lucky you’s)

besides guys… please help me!! (and dont tell me to ignore them because it doesnt work)

you guys are giving her advice that she already told you WONT WORK.

you gotta be creative.

Answer #2

If you’re being bullied, then don’t follow athleta4life’s advice. Violence won’t take care of anything. Just don’t let them get to you. You can say things like: “If that’s what you think, okay, but you’re really annoying me, so you can go away now.” I know it sounds a little sassy, but trust me. It’ll shock them and get them to stop, but it won’t actually truly hurt someone. Hope my advice helps ;)

Answer #3

at your age. the best most shocking thing to do, that would really scare her off, is to randomly punch her in the face when she is talking bad at you.

she will be shocked, suprised, scared, hurt, confused. it would send a message right through.

violence isnt the answer all the time. and I dont approve of this all the time lol :)

but trust me it would actually, work.

I look back at when I was young and when I got bullied I remember being very scared all the time.

back then they were bigger than me, but now that I look at it, if I was to react physically they would have never fought back. they would be so scared since they are so young that theyd pee their pants.

punching her might get you introuble, but trust me no other girl would ever decide to bully you after they see what your capable of.

they rather not risk it again.

Answer #4

my g/f had this problem in highschool. ya she is partly right. when they say things laugh. act like it doesn’t bother you. if you have quick wit, crack some jokes about yourself as well. if you can do this, it will take the fun out of it for them. I am better at thinking on my feet then my g/f, and helped her with this. they moved on, and some even became her school friends. just don’t attack them, that can make it worse.

Answer #5

what sort of stuff doo they say to u?

  • dont get annoyed with them. thats what they want probably. ignoring them is good but it might take a while for them 2 leave you alone. laughing with them is good 2. good luck !! x
Answer #6

I Think Your Mom’s Right.

Just WHen They Say Stuff, Just Laugh Along With Them And Say, “You’re Not Bothering Me, But You Are Annoying, Please Go Away.”

Don’t Bully Them Back, That’ll Just Make It Worse, Sweetie. (:

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