Im 15 And Pregnant

thank you I know that it will happen I just dont know what to tell her do I just come out and say Im pregnant and want to get married? I know she will let me because she was married at my age to a 29 yr old

if im seeing correctly your mother doent know about the marriage?

if so you have to make special time to talk to her maybe over dinner or on a day when she isnt distracted. make your point clear… dont let her cave you in if she doesnt want to know MAKE her know

good luck

Well, give her some warning, tell her ahead of time that you have something to tell her. Maybe you two can go out for a cup of coffee to discuss it (except you shouldn’t be drinking coffee, lol). Am thinking that people are less likely to shout and scream in a public place. Hope it goes ok ;)

Maybe you should accept that there will be a blow up. Believe me, that’s actually the smallest of your worries right now. You have a lot more to think about.

So tell her, and deal with the adversity.

You need your parents consent to get married if you’re 16. In Utah you can only get married at 15 if you have the court’s approval, which you might need it you’re pregnant. So, the marriage isn’t going to happen without her AND the courts knowing about it…

I know I was really excited we went out for coffee she was like ok whats with this I just told her and she said well its was your desicion to do that and ill let you face the consequences but im happy that you are keeping it and that I will be a grandma. Then she said im old anyways lol even tho she only 30 she had me at the same age.

thank you Pink Pearl! It worked I took your advice and my mom is actually happy that I am having a baby!

sit down and have a talk with her without any distractions that will help

I see your happy now…

have a good future with the baby and a happy marriage ;)

thank you people so much it helped a lot :)

awww :) :) :) :) :) great!