Should I keep ignoring my boyfriend?

Me and him have been arguing a lot lately and his reaction to everything is ignoring me until I apologize, even if I didn’t do anything. I haven’t spoken with him in nearly two days. Should I wait for him to talk to me?

Answer #1

I think you should consider moving on. This is not a healthy relationship, and if the two of you can’t pull it together and stop playing games, you’re only going to end up with resentment and hard feelings for each other.

Answer #2

I’ve known guys like that, actually a lot of them. I just waited until they would talk to me again. Sometimes if they ignore though it’s like the saying if you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all. He may just be wanting to cool off for a bit. He’ll come back when he has sorted it all out and isn’t mad anymore. Just have to wait. They do that to not make it worse or to hurt you, when that is the case.

Answer #3

Yes but I love him so much, it’s just so hard for me. We have been together for two years and this fighting recently started happening.

Answer #4

Yes but I love him so much, it’s just so hard for me. We have been together for two years and this fighting recently started happening.

Answer #5

That is a very good point of view. Thank you, I really needed to hear this :)

Answer #6

:) It is what a guy who ignored me once told me. I had never found out before that why guys would do that! they wouldn’t ever tell me.

Answer #7

My boyfriend is like that, when we argue, he gets really angry and fustrated that he cant think straight at all, and then ends up saying all this cr@p that he regrets later. So instead he ignores me, and just doesnt talk to me until he has regained his composure and then finally we can actually talk without yelling, and try to work things out.

Answer #8

no dont ignor him, if u do anything break up with the guy

Answer #9

Don’t play that game. If you feel any doubt in the relationship, get out. Especially if he’s ignoring you. But don’t just ignore eachother, you might as well have just broken up then anyways.

Answer #10

Love is not easy, if it were everyone would be able to experience it. But hey if it works out it works out, other wise i would say you should try and get past him. I mean there are a lot of fish in the sea, and i know they would be happy to have someone to love and care for.

Answer #11

Hmmm..i have gonee something likee thaat w/ my ex :/ you should ignore him. & dont givee up.If he really cares for you enough he will go to look for you or reach you. DONT let him believe he has got you. & if he doesnt then look for someone else better. He aint worth your time. YOu need loove not a silly game. :]

Answer #12

Thank you everyone so much for your advice, you all really helped :)

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