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if you were me.. who would you belive?

well today of my friends told me the sister of the guy I like was saying sh!t about me. it all started becuse the guy I like has not attended school for this last days && well I told my friend to ask his sister. but then I got some courage & I asked his weird cousin.lol. anyways in the morning I noticed his sister was looking at me in a kinda weird way, but I just ignored her. my friend didnt tell me anything until that girl left the room. when she left she told me” hey I told(the guy I like sister) that where was he because my friend(me) wants to know” && the girl said” I know who you are talking about && tell her its none of her business” my friend said that she didnt tell her it was me but I was still worried because well I’ve never spoken to that girl in my LIFE. the problem here is that my “friend” has a well-earned fame for being a liar. my other friends tell me not to belive her because they think she likes the guy I like & because she is a liar. I really dont know who to belive, if you were me.. who would you belive?

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Answer #1

I say that if you don’t trust 100% any of your friends, then just ask his sister yourself. might seem a little awkward but trust me, isn’t it better knowing the truth rather than ashuming the truth from oppsite sided friends? rivalry between friends is a nasty thing. do what feels is what you should be doing. hope I helped. andy

Answer #2

I believe the one who says that she is a liar. And you’re post is confusing. Yes though Iwould believe the one saying that she lies.

Answer #3

if you think she is a liar then dont believe her really just dont if she has lied in the past, she will lie again and I know that dude likes yuh ok so dont worry your beautiful

Answer #4

if shes a liar forget herrr! my ex was a liarr :P

cought him cheetin on me with my best friend so there both lierss >:P

goood luckk.

Answer #5

I wouldn’t put a lot of faith in what either are saying - it’s no big deal anyway - your concern is not with the sister, so press on and be friendly to him and maybe ‘get to know’ - see if it leads anywhere, regardless…you’ll be fine !!

Answer #6

Believe in your own instinct - if something doesn’t feel right, it most likely isn’t.

The problem here is that you have friends going against friends and it isn’t easy to pick and choose between them. All I can say is be perceptive - the truth has a way of rearing it’s ugly head.

Answer #7

why didnt you just talk to the sister yourself? the girl could or could not be lying, you dont know until you ask the source (the sister) without being rude.

Answer #8

Oh god um I got a little confussed trying to read all that and still am a bit lol.

Well for me I hate people who lie as it gets you no where in life at all and you get found out in the end.

I’m taking it as something to do with a sister and a guy here and a friend but could be wrong.

Not sure whats going on here as don’t understand it really so can’t really give that good advice apart from if you know this person lies a lot then you cant really trust and believe in anything they telling you.

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