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If you were interested, would you call a girl after this happened?

So here’s the situation - you are a bartender and a girl expresses an interest in you at the end of the night. You tell her to come and see you the next night. She comes, but gets totally wasted, acts stupid, and invites you over. You decline because she is so drunk. She comes in the next night to apologize for her behavior. She explains how embarrassed she is and how totally out of character that was for her. He tells her that it’s fine, he’s been drunk before and done something he has regretted, he knew she was stressing all day, he said to just relax. She said she would like to start over and still wanted to hang out but if he was totally turned off then she understood. He replied with “I have your number.” Is the guy really sincere about understanding or really turned off? Does the girl come off trashy? Does the girl score any points for going and apologizing? Would you call the girl if you were truly interested and give her another chance or not?

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Answer #1

it really depends on how stupid you got that night. It doesn’t sound like you did any real damage to your chances though. but you definatley scored points by appoligising the next day. I’d call and give you another chance. lol, remember this though, if you hit on him. He probably gets hit on by girls all the time when he’s workin. you could be just another crazy chick to him

Answer #2

Ok, so I think that the guy is implementing that he does not want to hang out with the girl, untill he feels it is right, and gives her a call, people make mistakes, so no this does not make the girl at all trashy, if ending up calling the chick, I would try to make it work, because he seemed nice enough to tell you what was really up, insead of taking advantage of the fact that you were drunk, anyways, good luck. :]

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