If pregnant maybe?

I’m slightly late. Uh Oh. I won’t abort it because I don’t believe in that. It’s only a week but … All girls get here, don’t they? My boyfriend doesn’t know but he will be okay if I am. I think he wanted to wait till I was 18. That’s when we get married.

Answer #1

You’re accusing him of, I’m guessing, being “weird” for playing a computer game and putting his avatar of it on his profile..

but yet you seem obsessive over Lord of the Rings? Big difference there, really.

Answer #2

well im guessing you guys are sexually active. thats why you are panicking? well if this is so and you are slightly late then you need to go get a pregnancy test. you need to wait until the day your period is due to take the pregnancy test. that would be the best time.

Answer #3

Best thing to do is go buy a pregnancy test. Depending on how “slightly” late you are, there may be no need to worry, but if you want to wait, maybe you should be more careful and practice safe sex. Yay condoms!

“Pulling out” is not a valid means, however. There’s still a high amount of sperm in the pre-ejaculate (pre-cum) that can cause pregnancy.

Answer #4

Well, I went and got the test and it has a light second line. It might still be too early but if it is and I am then it’s okay because I was worried we couldn’t. It’s been like five to six months since we started doing it and it took that long. People will give us money and things and my Moms is okay with it so everyone we know close to us is supportive.

Answer #5

You’re not ready to raise a child. Wait til you’re married. Bringing a child into the world before you have a solid footing and have no problem providing for its needs is gravely irresponsible. Enjoy your time together with your boyfriend for a couple of years just the two of you. You have a lifetime afterwords to raise a family.

As a sixteen-year-old you greatly increase your risk of complications with both the child you might be carrying and yourself. Do you want to spend your life with a disabled child you need to spoon-feed into adulthood? How about causing damage to your reproductive organs during childbirth, making your first child your last? Is it worth it?

Wait til you’re eighteen. Til then get on the pill or use condoms.

Answer #6

lordelrond…the doll on his page is a final fantasy game character…and he has a right to give advice about ‘pre-ejaculate’ due to the question…Kristin, if your boyfriend has a problem with a 16 year old hearing bout it, then you two shouldn’t be having s*x in the first place. That action has a lot to do with everything manwithalotofanswers is saying…It’s a mature topic, you asked an adult question, deal with the adult answers!

Jess

Answer #7

all I have to say personally if you are pregnant just take care of the baby love the baby because if the baby fell like he/she not loved then when the baby get older he/she is going to grow apart from you and you don’t want that so all you have to do is tell your boyfriend and am sure he would understand and help you take care of the baby because it takes 2 to make a baby but it takes a real man to take responsibility for his child and y’all still should get married just know the baby was a blessing and that’s more then enough reason for y’all to get married for the baby and plus y’all love one another…

Answer #8

It doesn’t matter because we are getting married and we don’t need condoms. We don’t have diseases. I’ll have his children a couple years early, that is all.

My boyfriend just read this and asked why a guy with the name “manwithalotofanswers” is talikng about pre ejaculate cum with a 16 year old?

I think he is upset. He won two years in a row tae Kwon do… so I wouldn’t make him mad.

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