If I don't dream of giving myself a handjob, do I not love me?

After an ordeal of “fire and water” I stopped dreaming for over six years. Then a girl finally showed some interest in me and I offered her my dick. Then I dreamed of self felatio. Then she stopped showing interest in me and I haven’t dreamed since. I am not impressed that I do not love myself enough to dream of giving myself a handjob, but if I love a woman I’m disgusted at the idea of ejaculating into my own mouth. Is that why I do not love myself? Must I abandon love?

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Answer #1

You seem to be very confused on what self-love is all about. Self-love is about accepting who you, taking care of your person and trying to become a better person. As for masturbation and fantasies, there is nothing wrong with them but they do not define how much you love yourself. Just because you do not have erotic dreams does not mean you do not love yourself. Before seeking a relationship, I advise you to concentrate on yourself and learn to understand your own feelings and fantasies.

Answer #2

No! its just happened you don’t want that kind of act of satisfying yourself. Have you never tried before?

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