What are some ideas on how to change everything about my self?

Well I need to i hate everything from my personality to my hair color. I always seem to be wrong about everything, and I cant take myself anymore.

thats gona take a lot of time i tried that once becuase i just hated my self bet i was able to change my personalty becuase i was deturmant about it but trust me there is nothing better than just being your self no mater who u are or haw u are. hope i helped thats really what i think u might no agree

I do understand the sentiment. It isnt exactly easy being stuck with yourself if you hate yourself, you’re kinda stuck with you all the time. Unfortunately, you’re born with basic personality traits. There’s not much you can do about those. If there’s specific things you dont like, maybe those can be adjusted. The hair color is easy. Although from someone who dyed their hair for most of their life, it doesnt change anything. Honestly, you’d be better off trying to learn to accept yourself. You probably arent as terrible as you think you are. Quite frankly, you have a better shot at succeeding with that. Might as well be realistic here. Everything about you cannot be terrible. I doubt there’s a human on earth who is just wrong in every possible aspect. Given that you’re using overgeneralized thinking to an extreme and the self-loathing, well you’re not thinking is not exactly working all that great. Therapy could help.

the things u wear

you can change yourself for the better like quitting old habits like smoking.

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I was going through this a few months ago, and i stumbled upon Maria Montessori, sit, learn and if you really want to change there is a way in her methods.