How can I get my boyfriend's attentions on me?

Girl for one get your self esteem up. I know it may sound hard but the way it sounds there could be something going on in between him and his ex. If he is cheating on you I know you dont want to but let him go. If he is cheating on you now think of how your future with him would be like if you got married or had kids he prob would end up cheating on you and hurting you even more. I know you deserve better than that any girl does and I know people always say there is more fish in the sea, and your saying I dont want no other fish, well sometimes you have to let that fish go and get a new one. Ive had to let guys go in the past and now I have found a guy I think is truely perfect for me and he treats me like any girl should be treated.

I think you should sit him down one day and talk to him. Be like so we have been going out for .. and (his exs name) sees you more than i do. So choose who you would rather have me or her.

And if he chooses her then dont let him see you cry or anything and just be like ok fine with me, act like it doesnt bother you one bit. I know it will be so hard, I have been though the same exact thing. Just dont let anyone see you cry and keep your head held high like it doesnt bother you at all. Maybe he will come crawling back one day realizing how bad it he hurt you. When some girl ends up breaking his heart.

I hope I helped, Your only 14 you have your whole life ahead of you to find guys all though highschool and college. I am always here if you need me because I know exactly how it is. You can always MustangHotty09@gmail.com

-Kristina