I want to get pregnant as soon as possible

As much as I appreciate being rated as not helpful with my previous statements, I don’t think most of you understand how important it is to get some back story from her first before posting here.

Judging by her one line, short question of ‘how can I get pregnant very soon’, may I stress the words ‘VERY SOON’? How does anyone not hear the alarm bells ringing??

She doesn’t seem like a very well informed girl, and it’s not just about making babies, I have quite a few concerns about her decision-making capabilities. I can safely say that a woman who has really thought about it through and through would articulate the situation she is in, the security of her relationship, the consequences she is willing to bear, the environment she will bring the child in, her future family’s future, etc to give readers and advisors here a better picture, thus giving her better information tailored to her needs to take into consideration.

Not, “how can I get pregnant very soon?”

For all we know she can just be a 14-year old girl on a fake profile trying to get into that teenage pregnancy craze in the US. Hence, I will not dispense this sort of information until I really know the intention of the person seeking advice. You can tell a lot about someone by the way he/she writes and present themselves.

Besides, if she were intelligent and mature enough, how hard is it to just type “how can I get pregnant very soon” in a search engine?

ok. when I got married we were very keen to have a baby as soon as possible. you don’t need to be married to have a baby! but being in a secure relationship is ideal, unless your planning on doing this on your own.

I saw you were over 20, but the best way to get pregnant is not to go at it lke rabbits, it’s all about timing! try to have sex once every 2 days… when you next have you period, note the date (not day!) add 14 days onto that first day. when you reach that 14th day, get an ovulation test and pee on the stick. it will let you know if you are ovulating or not, if you are, then this would be a prime time to have sex (I got my husband home from work!! lol) try to have sex the next day too…

this 14 cycle is working on the notion that your periods are every 28 days…

you can check your temp and check your mucus (it becomes slightly runnier during ovulation) but the ovulation test is the most reliable form, I got pregnant the first month using this…

but above all, more important than anything - RELAX! worrying about getting pregnant can seriously hinder your chances of becoming pregnant…don’t underestimate the power of stress!

please make sure before you do this though that you are in a positino to be able to support the baby, both financially and emotionally…

just relax and enjoy…what’s your hurry anyway?

I wouldn’t bother answering this unless you’re in a secure marriage..

you dont have to be married to be ready for a baby!

It’s a very serious life changing thing, I dont no how old you are but if your young then I think you should think twice before doing this.

Yeah but you need to be financially and emotionally secure! I doubt her boyfriend would want such a commitment without marriage or an engagment.

haave a lot of unprotected sex then keep your legs in the air for 20 mins :)