I want my ex-boyfriend back but he has a girlfriend...

Even if he did care about you, it doesnt mean he wants to be with you. Hes cheated on his girlfriend by hooking up with his ex (you). Is that really the kind of guy you wanna be with? If he wanted to be with you he would, but hes with someone else. That should tell you how he feels about you.

but im sure his relationship with long distance isnt gonna work out because he’s been traveling a lot and he’s sick of it so im sure they arent gonna last long even more.. >>those are only YOUR feelings. He may be sick of traveling, but I’m sure it has nothing to do with his girlfriend. Hes an ex for a reason.

you seriously don’t deserve him. if he has a girlfriend now, good for him. you have to tell yourself your better. you know that. you are. he’s done so much to you, you can find someone who’ll treat you like how you were treated for the first 3 months, but you can feel like that for the rest of your lifetime! once you find some other person and you build a new emotional connection, you’ll get over this boy. you care too much about him but yet, he doesn’t care even a little about you.

He dumped me twice, one was for me acting like a foolish at a party and second one that was just for nothing.. wants to explore around

He said he just want to explore around and then when I’m older enough to be with him he would love to get back with me

now he has a long distance girlfriend

We hooked up twice while he was with his girlfriend and he has also flirted with other girls too

we got into so many drama, arguements and there were threats involved

this weekend he’s taking his girlfriend to new york.

^^So why do you want him back? Its clear the feelings here are only one-sided. To me he sounds like a player. Sex isnt going to make him come back to you, and it doesnt mean he wants you back…he wants his cake & eat it too.