I want her back but she wont let me.

Dear Map,

There is not ONE thing you can do….For what it’s worth this happens probably millions of times a day to one person that is in a relationship. What happened in your case is that she got emotionally connected to someone else. Maybe someday she will change her idea of being with him (the other guy). BUT for now there is NOTHING you can do other than excepting what I am telling you. By excepting her decision….understanding that HER emotions are out of your control and trying to reflect on how you could be a better person in your NEXT relationship….Will make you mature yourself. Try looking back without denial and except some of the responsibility for the hard timed you had with youe ex, and see how you can NOT let the same thing happen with your next girlfriend. You have no idea how this will help you….I know it’s tough right now, but if you can find numerous learning experiences from it, you will evetually turn lemone (right now)..into lemonade (your next girlfriend relationship). Remember this also…. Women HATE the crying…. sobbing…. I’ll be better person I promise attitude. Get yourself together and demonstrate confidence….be a man, by understanding you can’t control emotions…. You could still go to her and tell her (with a confident attitude) That you made some mistakes….. You are sorry for it….AND you have also learned from the whole experience…. You (at this time) still love her and want her back….However YOU have learned that she has taken a different path in her life that works for her…. You wish her happiness and (for now) will be here for her if she changes her mind…. Give her a kiss on the cheek and walk away….Get excited over meeting your next girl. Familycoach