I wanna get pregnant...

if you want to find out what is wrong with him tell him to go get a check up. he might get some hormone pill from a doctor.

well, I do love him…

I just want to know what the prob is so we can fix it and have a baby :)

I qwould get a new man!!! You have to cummm in order to have love!!!

You are only 15 years old! Why in the hell are you trying to get pregnant. To begin with your boyfriend not being able to come - is probley his way and his bodies way of telling you that he is not ready for a child.

Also, your not old enough to work or drive. A baby the first year cost 10,000 dollars, that is NOT including the medical bills and doctor bills. Where are you going to find 10,000 dollars? Even with a minimum wage job you will not make that much money. You dont have health insurance (a pregnancy is not covered on your parents health insurance) and doctor visits can cost as much as 200 every time you see them (which is once a month and every week in the third trimester). Then you have the hospital bill - mine was 9,000 dollars for my delivery.

I’m sick of young girls turning something as beautiful as pregnancy and childbirth into a huge joke. You should not be trying for a baby right now, who is going to take care of it? Dont say your parents - they did their job by raising you - it’s not their responsibility to raise your child. How are you going to pay for child care, a crib, medical bills, formula, baby food, cereal, clothes, towels, wipes, diapers, blankets, a stroller, a car seat, medicine, etc. You are not thinking clearly my dear.

Here’s some information on the pregnancy, birth, and after also. It’s all 100 percent true and not even close to everything..

The Pregnancy: -the swollen body parts that ache -the constipation -the hemmroids -the aching breast -the not being able to get up of the sofa by yourself -the strechmarks -the morning (allday) sickness -the kicks the baby gives to your ribs -the frequent urination -the constant pap smears -the blood work -Wanting to eat everything in sight -The bad teeth - a lot of pregnant women’s calcium get’s sucked out during pregnancy, you have to take your vitamins and take care of your teeth. You need to be taking prenatal vitamins daily also. It’s not only important for your baby’s health, but for yours also. A child sucks the nutrients out of you and you need those vitamins to keep yourself healthy.

The Birth: -Your pushing something the size of a watermelon out of something the size of a pea. -You are most likely going to tear, sometimes from front to back. -You get stitches. -You get poked in the back for the epidural -The epidural usually just takes the contractions away not the pressure -The pressure is a whole different kind of pain, imagine all your intestines, trying to escape from your vagina. -The contrations are like period cramps times a million. -The nurses are coming in every 30 seconds, to stick their fingers in you to check for dialation, give you a catheter to drain the pee out of you, and to poke around down there. -You can not eat or drink the ENTIRE time you are in labor. All you get is ice chips. -There the ring of fire, as they call it when the baby’s head crowns, it really does feel like your vagina is on fire and ripping! -90 percent of women take a crap while they are pushing the baby out, you can’t stop this from happening.

After the Birth: -Then afterwards, you have the fun adventure of bleeding for up to 6 weeks. The first time you get up out of the hospital bed after giving birth, blood and fluid gushes from your vagina all over the floor. -You’ll most likely pass blood clots after giving birth too. If you dont get to the bathroom fast enough, they can fall down your pantsleg. -Dont forget, no tampons! Only big nasty pads for the next 6 weeks! -Your breast will be engored and sore and will leak milk from anywhere from 1 week to 3 months. It is painful and you have to wear bra pads in order to keep from leaking through to your shirt.

he says he wants one too.

and hes 17. I dont know…

Maybe you should wait Dee, its not worth ruining your life. I cant believe you lied to me still…whats wrong with you that you lie to me over and over?

hunny don’t… wait. wait till you are at least 18. please. don’t ruin your life now. taking care of a baby is a lot of work. so like babysit till then. you still have the whole motherly feeling and someone depending on you. I know you want something growing inside you that you made and it is a part of you but don’t. pleas don’t. my friend had a baby and she is a beautiful girl. she is lucky that the father wants to help and be a part of their lives. she is only 16. hes 17. and little harly is 10 months. they have the support of some family members but the rest of them woun’t talk to them and they cutt off all ties. don’t please dont. all of them work to raise her and I babysit while they are at work. I used to want someone growing inside me to but then is saw what happened to them and I did a double take. I love harly to death and she is the cuttest thing in the world but I am glad that she is not mine. I couldn’t jugle a baby and school and a job. I just couldn’t so please don’t. there are alost some laws against it depending on where you live. the only reason the father isn’t in jail is becasue they are getting a court order to be married. please dont’ think this through all the way from start to finish. and the laws. give this some though. do you have the money for 10,000 a month? can you drive if the baby gets sick and no one but you two are around? can you handle everything? are you sure the father will stay? will HE be shuned? how about your family? think.. add me ok? pm me or something.

beth liveyourlife, what a silly comment. Boys can produce sperm from a very young age… so being 15 I doubt that is his problem.

It could be many things. But I agree, you are too young to have a child. Have you actually asked him if he wants a child too? He might not, which could cause an effect with his ejaculation… you’d be suprised what stresses can stop a man from performing properly.

DONT try to get pregnant now most likely he will NOT be around when you get pregnant your so young and he will not want the resposiblitily of a baby and neither will you. By getting pregnant your taking Years away from your youth when all your friends will be out having a good time at the bar you will be stuck at home with a toddler is that what you want??? is so you really really need some help…

he obviously doesnt have any in him as hes too young! youre only 15 youre far too young. theres nothing else I can say to persuade you not to get pregnant as mandyloos coverd it all so take her advice. its bad for you and for everyone else.