How to tell my husband I think I'm pregnant?

I think I may be pregnant and I need some advice on how to tell my husband. I haven’t taken a pregnancy test yet but im also afraid to find out. I’m not worried about him getting upset or anything but my husband and I have been through 3 pregnancies together and every one has ended up in a miscarriage. Im afraid of telling him because of the past miscarriages and I don’t want him getting really excited and then all fails again.

Any advice would help. Thanks.

Answer #1

well I guess you just have 2 do it! pick a good moment.. when ure alone, when he isnt tired or anythin - weekend?? remember - the sooner you tell him the better. you wouldnt want HIM 2 keep things from YOU, would u? so ya. good luck xx

Answer #2

Thank you for all the suggestions they have been a great help to me. I have an appointment with Planned Parenthood Wednesday and I will let you all know what I find out. Thanks for the advice. I am going to wait till I find out for sure though before I say anything to him.

Thank you all Rebekah

Answer #3

well, if he is not gunna be angry, just sit him down and say, “ I know we have been through this a lot in the past, but I am pregnant again. I really want to make this one work, and I know we have both been disappointed, but we need to take a chance. I hope you r as excited and commited as I am, and I love you so much that I am so glad I am doing this with u. only time will tell if this will work, but I really want you to help me give it a shot!” hope that helped!

Answer #4

Dear imhiswifey2007, It is very difficult when in your situation. But from my family experience with this type of situation you may cause resentment if you are not honest and upfront with your husband. Make sure you indeed pregnant before saying anything. The resentment comes from you thinking he isn’t man enough to handle the disappointment or to be able to comfort you through your disappointment. Your man wants to be strong for you and there for you…you both have suffered enough losses and taking this away from him would be another loss. My heart goes out to you but it takes the both of you to get through these tough times. You can’t and shouldn’t do it alone. Sue…good luck

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