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Couple of days ago me and my girlfriend were making out. We had previously talked about all the stuff we wanted to do, and she did say that I could feel watever I wanted ontop of her clothes. Well that day I crossed the line and began to go under her shirt. What I dont understand is that she willingly took her bra off and let me do watever. Rite after however I could tell she was upset and I stopped and kept apologizing. I truly am sorry and I dont want her to think all I want is sex because its not. I want her to be able to trust me and I told her it wouldnt happen again. I love her a lot and I just cant seem to know what to do now any advice would be appreciated

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Answer #1

thanks we said we would talk it over this sunday at the beach..

Answer #2

nothing to be scared of and you will know when thhings like this happen its better to tell them as soon as possible that you need to talk about what happened and what you could to do prevent this in the future. just take things slow and if she wants you to make a move do it but make it slow and make sure shes ready :D Cheers Mate

Answer #3

thanks guys everyones telling me the same thing im just scared as hell

Answer #4

Just tell her exactly how you feel, if she kept willing proceeding with these actions, then obviously it mislead you to think that she was ok with it…if she wanted to stop, she should of said something a little earlier, anyhow…tell her exactly what you told us, and you all should be fine.
xx. superfresh.

Answer #5

Just sit down with her and talk about it. Tell her that she should stop you any time that she feels uncomfortable and reassure her that you will be ok with her stopping you. She probably let you go ahead because she was nervous and caught up in the moment. After you talk to her about it, don’t bring it up again unless she wants to talk about it. She probably feels really nervous about what she did and she may feel slightly embarrassed.

Just make sure you talk to her and find out what the do’s and dont’s of the situations are. Sam

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