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I think I have a controlling boyfriend

I need advise. Is my boyfriend controlling? I went out for one of my bestfriends 21st birthday to a club. My boyfriend was not able to go. He was thinking the worse and telling me that I was going to get drunk and hook up with different guys, never once have I ever cheated or done anything like that. I got back late and I didnt call him. He called me over 100 times and I had 15 voicemails from him, he got mad because I didnt pcik up my phone cause I was sleeping. Yet, he is convinced that I had another guy in my bed with me. I slept in my bestfriends boyfriends roommate bed(he is in a different state for the summer) My other best friend slept in the bed with me. She is a girl, he is convinced her and I have done stuff, I am not a lesbian nor am I BI. He is now telling me that he hates me and I make him sick. Also he tells me I drink all the time and I don’t, he hates my best friend and blames our fighting on her. I am so confussed and I dont know if I should still be with him. Oh and this is NOT the first time this has happened…

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Answer #1

I agree if he dosent trust you whats the point of the relationship I mean why would he say stuff like that and if thats not first time its happened then he seriously has issues [no offence] and if he liked you he wouldnt tell you all those mean thinqs I think you should jusst end it because it dosent sound like its workinq out. :) sorry

Answer #2

well he obviously doesnt trust you at all. &and there is no point in being in a realtionship where there is no trust. thts just wht I think.

Answer #3

Well… this just shows how insecure and scared about losing you, if he had a girlfriend cheat on him then you cant blame the guy but if no ex has cheated on him then youll need to talk to him about it ask him, is that what he always want to think of you all of his life? ask him if he takes just a few seconds and think that you would do no such things because you care and love him? Just make him see his thinking negative and if he wants to work on the relationship he needs to learn to trust you.

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