I think he's gay...?

I love a boy so much for about 2 weeks now but I have known him for a year. We playfight and joke and I really am crazy over him. I THINK he’s gay, I don’t know but maybe… I hope not do you know how I could find out???

Answer #1

Ask him. Just say “Have you ever questioned your sexuality?”

Or trick him, maybe say you think you might be bisexual and see how he reacts. Ask him if he thinks it’s normal.

Nobody is 100% straight anyway.

Could be worse, I found my ex on a gay website posting pictures of his penis on there and leaving sexual comments about other boys’ members.

Answer #2

I’m in the same situation. I’m not sure he’s gay (he’s my best friend), but sometimes he acts a little… not guy-like… I don’t know… deep down inside I hope he’s not. If he is, I’ll be devastated. But even if he is, I’ll always be there for him. Hope you will too.

Answer #3

it’s either he’s gay, or you, yourself is not interesting for him, you ain’t his type, or you are plainly treated as a friend.. DON’T ASSUME MUCH, hunny..

Answer #4

first of all, you can’t “love” someone who you only know for a year and second, just ask him.

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