I Still Love Him But Im Torn

Im a 20 year old female and I’ve been with this guy for 2 years. At first everything was good but then I started to find out about different females that he has messed around with. But even after that I still stayed because I love him. Then things started to get worse but I still stayed. We have broken up numerous of times but always got back together. Just recently we broke up and he came to my house begging to be back with me. Saying that he needed me and he know that he messed things up and he loves me and he wants to work on things. So of course I took him back because he sounded so sincere. Now I found out that he has so-called “girlfriend” that he’s been talking to for about a month now. Its kind of strange that they’ve been talking for a month because thats about how long we’ve been back together. But this isnt the first time something like this has happened. He’ll talk to a new girl but when things don’t work out he wants to come home and like a fool I take him back because I love him so much. But through everything he has done me work numerous of times and I don’t know what to do now. Its like I want to be right here because I know when it doesnt work out with him and this new girl he’s going to come back but I dont want to take him back. Im just torn because I still love him but I don’t want to every take him back. I want to get over him and let go but its so hard. What do I do?

Answer #1

The reason that he keeps doing this is because he knows that you will take him back. He is abusing you and your feeling by only being with you when he wants to. Basically, you need to ask yourself if you want to live the rest of your life wondering what he is doing, asking around, spying, and looking over his back. Trust me, I have been there and it is the worst feeling in the world and its not worth it.

Answer #2

He is obviously no good for you, and you know it. It’s become a habit for you to accept him, so he’s now taking it for granted and thinking it’s alright to see other girls. This is NOT okay, at all. No matter what he says to you, if he loved you he would NOT be doing this to you. End it now, there are SO many other guys out there. And when you find that one guy who makes you feel loved, you will know that this guy was no where near what you really deserve.

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