I need to break my hymen or find out if it is broken already

ure hymen is quite likely to be broken from fingering, tampons etc. if not it doesnt matter becos if you bleed during sex you can just say ure bigger thn im used to, even tho my hymen is broken I’ve still bled before

Ok, there is a slight difference between being a liar and telling a lie. If you blurted out that you’d already had sex because you were embarrassed, you need to talk to him. How exactly do you hope to have a future with a guy you cant even come clean to (oh and why on earth would you want to give up your virginity to a guy who you couldnt be honest with?) Talk to him. This is a special experience, he should know it is your first time. And if you ever do get serious with this guy, can you imagine in several years down the road having to deal with this gigantic lie? Come clean… If he dumps you because of something this stupid, you deserve better…

You can’t tell if your hymen has been broken. Different people (girls) have different sizes of hymen openings.

My ex boyfriend fingered me a lot and I’d bleed sometimes because he popped my cherry by fingering me. But when we had sex, I still bled. The guy will probably understand. It is possible for your period to be rushed that way, so you could tell him that he rushed your period.

sayy you got your period.

It’s called a full stop (or a period as you yanks like to say). I really can’t understand what you are trying to say