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I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, I found out yesterday that he has been seeing another girl, not having sex but kissing and flirting. It was a whole big secret and it was me who confronted the girl and found out everything. I still love him, but I dont deserve all the hurt and pain he caused…what should I do? Stay or leave???? pls help. Holly

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Answer #1

Don’t let someone like that walk all over you. I have been in that situation before. There was this guy named Phillip Cox. I was with him. But he cheated on me right behind my back. My best friends told me that. I didn’t like it at all myself. I called him up and chewed him out big. I did break it off with him. Because how much he hurted me. But don’t see him anymore. He might hurt you again. I would leave him if I were you. You really need to leave his butt. Just think about what you are doing. See someone else. But just confront him first and talk about it. But for a change leave him and probably someone else would like you. Never know on down the road. You might see someone else that you like. Be more open and give yourself some space. Things will come out in the open. You really don’t deserve him at all. Holly I do mean well. Just let him go. Get on with your own life.

Answer #2

Holly if i were you i would confront my boyfriend and ask him who this girl is and why he did this in the first place and she what he has to say about it. then i would make my decision weather to stay or leave. how long has he been with this girl? but i think i would leave… good luck

Answer #3

I think that you should tell your boyfriend about this, one way or another its gonna come out, but if I were you, I wouldnt stay with him, even though you two have been together for a while now, its not worth being with someone who is out with some other gurl and all over her, they may not be having sex or anything now, but who knows what will happen if so far they have just been kissing and he is still seeing her. You dont deserve that, no matter how much it may hurt you, you cant let someone just walk all over you like that.

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