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I've been going 0ut wit this guy f0r 8 m0nths he broke up with me on monday. when ihe asked me out it was the happiest day of my life I never felt this way bef0re I was so happy and I will never f0rget that day he asked meh 0ut in out f0od prep class we just finished c0oking and it was time to0h g0 when he t0ok mah santas hat away fr0m meh and I tried t0oh get it back and he grabbed mah arm and asked meh 0ut. I was sh0cked and he l0oked s0 kewt t0oh he had whipping cream all 0ver his face and he gave meh his little puppy eyes. well after we started g0ing 0ut 0ur realati0nship grew m0re and m0re t0oh da p0int were he said he l0ved meh al0t and I t0ld him I l0ved him al0t t0oh.but at first I was afraid t0oh l0ve him because I didnt want t0oh get hurt and I t0ld him and he pr0mised meh he w0uldnt s0 I belived him.s0 the days went by and it was time f0r summer vacations and he went to mexico s0 I didnt talk t0oh him f0 1 m0nth I missed him s0 much.0ne day I called him and he answered I was s0 happy t0oh hear his v0ice.
when we started getting m0re int0 a c0nversati0n I n0ticed he was acting different and he w0uld call meh names and make meh feel bad.well when we want back t0oh sko0 I saw him and mah heart jumped and I went up t0oh him and we talked and walked ar0und t0oh. when it was time t0oh g0 h0me 0ne 0f mah friends t0old meh he was hanging ar0und wit 0nly gurls at lunch time and he walked 0ff wit 5 gurls t0oh after sk0o s0 I called him later that day and he denied b0ut walking h0me wit 5 girls but it was true bout him hanging around wit th0se gurls. a few weeks passed and he was acting like a jerk but he didnt act like a jerk f0r a week but after that week I started hearing that he was g0ing t0oh brake up wit me. and I asked him t0oh if it was true and he denied t0oh s0 I waited t0oh c if it was true that he didnt say that. but then a week after he went up t0oh meh at lucnh and we talked b0ut us and after luch he walked meh t0oh class and when I was bout t0oh leave he grabbed mah arms and I though he was g0nna give meh a kiss and dats when he t0old meh he wanted t0oh brake up wit meh I felt mah self turn pale. he cept telling meh he wanted t0oh be realy g0od friends wit meh but I g0t 0ut 0f his grip and left. I cried after class. I was br0ken I was c0nfussed and l0st I didnt n0e why he did that f0r I thought he l0ved meh and he pr0mised he would never hurt meh.a few days later his friend t0ld meh why he changed and why he br0ke up wit meh I asked him what was da reas0n and he t0ld meh that ex slept wit a girl 4 times in mexic0 I c0uldnt belive it I cried and I was s0 br0ken I've been trying t0oh f0rget but I just cant I still l0ve him I really d0 and I wish that he c0uld c h0u much he hurt meh and h0u much I still...l0ve him
Alrighty. Lol well that took me a while to read but,
Sounds like he was a jerk to you at the end.. but I understand that you probably do love him.. and you guys had lots of good times but it was probably just over for him. I know its hard to hear but some guys are just jerks when it comes to that... he did the wrong thing by sleeping with someone when it was over for him instead of telling you and then hurting you this much. I know it hurts.. its f*cking kills trust me I know.. it sucks big time.. but i'll you can do is carry on with your life.. try not to let it bother you.. do things to keep your mind off of it. Your gunna have hard days.. when you think about him, times you might have had.. things you might have done.. and you'll miss him. Of course you will. But you dont deserve what he did. And he doesn't deserve you if thats how he treated you so you can't think about trying to get him to get back together. It wont be worth it. You just have to focus on the good times to come with friends and maybe even another boy. And on those hard days.. just get your girlfriends.. maybe have a good cry cuz thats healthy.. just dont get upset over something thats not worth it.. all i can say is that is will be hard.. and im sure you still love him but you can't live like that.. You just need to move on and try and enjoy yourself.
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months about a week ago.. it sucks.. it really does.. and i still have days were I just need to cry.. but you CANT let it hold you back.
Were woman.. and shouldnt be treated like shiitt. so just keep your head high and stay strong. Best of luck hun <3
Lol I would be crazy if I tried to read all that. But heres what yoou do.
Try to avoid being around him as much as possible. If you're around him all the time how can you get over him. During the summer or Christmas Break or some big long break like that. Is the best opportunity. Occupy yourself with other things like join up a club or organization or something. Soon you'll be ova him. Hope I helped.
