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does your first time having sex hurt? and is it ok if you have sex at 13 or 14?

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Answer #1

Yeah, it probably will hurt.

If you’re already turned on before you have sex, it won’t hurt as much. You have to make sure you are well lubricated, whether it’s natural or not.

When it’s your first time you are going to be tight down there - so it will take a while to even get started.

They do have restrictions on how old you have to be to have sex for a reason. But as long as you believe you can deal with the consequences of it (Pregnancy and STDs, etc), and you are willing to give away your virginity, you are probably ready for sex – only you can know that, though.

I do believe (like most others) that your first time should be special, romantic and with someone you truly care for and love.

But, for God sake, if you are going to do it, use a fricken condom or some kind of protection (you could go on the pill)…don’t let yourself become another statistic. :)

Answer #2

this sounds so cliche but you have to be ready for it.. your first time make sure you love the guy for your first time or you will be miserable

Answer #3

if your tooo tight then yeah it does hurt you migt be sore for a few days but it will alll get better eventually =] and yes its ok… if you felt you were ready then you were ready its obviously better to wait it will be like wayyy more special and satisfying once uve grown up a bit but yeah its perfectly fine I gues… I mean I wish I would have waited till like 16 to lose it because then it would have been a choice that I made without so much peer preassure that you feel at 13 and 14 but as long as YOU are ready go for it just be safee please =]

Answer #4

YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE THINKING ABOUT HAVING SEX. Don’t do it. It really COULD ruin your life at such a young age. There will ALWAYS be time for that later on. Save it, it will feel better and be more special when you are older.

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