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Ok so my friend has NEVER had a guy like her, but I always do, have a boyfriend and everything… well I told her she needs to save a spot for guys to put notes in there and she was almost in tears telling me how she has never had a guy like her! well that was the other day, and now I told her a guy told me he likes her… and now shes all happy…but all my other friends are PISSED at me! help! there mad becase nobody likes her… I made it up =[

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Answer #1

she is going to find out sooner or later that nobody likes her. so why make up a lie and end up hurting her more in the end

Answer #2

Well…aside from trying to find a guy that does like her the only thing you can do is tell her the truth. If you get someone to pretend to like her she’ll be even more hurt when she finds out (and she will find out). Just tell her the truth.

Answer #3

I am sure you were trying to make her happy, but unfortunately you’re going to have to tell her. She’s going to feel really stupid (and I’m afraid even less likeable) if she continues to harbor this false belief). I know you were trying to help, but maybe the best way to deal with this is by not making the fact that a guy has never liked her (and you dont actually know this, you just know a guy has never verbalized this) all that important. Who cares what the boys in your school think, it doesnt change her self worth, seriously life is so much bigger than that and it does not make up her worth!

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