Why am I feeling so negative about us?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 7 days now and I love him dearly…we used to see each other a lot like 3 times of every week of every month. We are very affectionate and we show it …but now lately he’s been working weekdays 12-5 and Saturdays 11:30-6 and I work to so finding time for each other is hard…I lately have been feeling weird. It can be due to the time of month which is coming soon and I am kinda getting sick too. I been also working a lot more then usual myself. I usually only work 2 days during the weekday 4-9 and then weekends at whatever shift…but these past 2 weeks I’ve been working like 3 days a weekday and working like 9 -10 hrs shifts on weekends for 2 weeks straight. I’m trying to get in to college and haven’t recieved my test results for one of them when I should have like 2 weeks ago and I lately feel like I’m drifting away for my boyfriend for some reason. I’m thinking that I don’t have the same feelings for him, yet I can’t go a day with out talking to him….he notices it too. Why am I feeling and thinking this way?….I really don’t want to be like this it’s driving me crazy…I do love him cause if I didn’t I wouldn’t be crying as of right now while I’m writing this….I really really love him and I really do see myself with him in the near future …

Answer #1

Dear nessa19, Some say absence makes the heart grow fonder others say out of sight out of mind. I think you are tired and stressed with your extra workload and (that time of the month) happening soon. You are feeling what is normal in a hectic lifestyle. When young people date they face extra dilemmas because one may be going away to college or finding a good job in another State. There are no easy answers but trying to relax more, stress less and keep the lines of communication open with your boyfriend. Talk to him about how your feeling, be truthful about your stress and your fears. If you learn to handle these situations together early just think how well you both could handle the really tough decisions together later on. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

give it time

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