I need help!!!

It’s not all about how you “finger yourself”. You should try to get yourself into a relaxed mood where you know you won’t be interupted and you don’t have to be nervous about it. Then try this. no clothes but panties lay down on top of the covers legs apart and knees bent up a bit. Close your eyes and think about some things that excite you, then let your hands go over yourself find the areas that feel good on your breasts the inside of your thighs etc. Remember it takes a while for us to warm up(Wish boys would figure that out) as you become excited let your hand brush over your self between your legs now and then, a finger sliding up and down then under your panties start to explore. Tickle around your clit and slip a finger in IF it feels good to slip it in, sometimes I am too sensative and I don’t like to actually touch my clit too much other times not so much tease around it and over it now and then, slip your panties off now and find the things that feel the best for you everyone is different continue and think about whatever it is that turns you on and fantasize it is being done…for me I like to think someone is watching me …I know weird LOL but it turns me on to think like I am turning some older guy on and making him all wakey and hard. Anyway I think you can figure it out from there…this is what worked for me the first time or two after that I knew what my body wanted and haven’t had any trouble since then.