I need help

Don’t tell anyone. This isn’t something anyone needs to know (yet). You’ve probably heard about the genetic problems that can come from incestuous relationships, and it’s true, but it doesn’t happen every time, and your child might be perfectly healthy.

Your boyfriend will be held responsible for your child, and you need to protect him. If there’s too many questions, tests will be done. Avoid that. Keep it a secret unless your child develops health problems, then only tell your doctor. You have enough problems as it is, and at the moment, I can’t think of any reason to make them worse by telling everyone about it. It would be especially bad for your baby.

I’m sorry to hear this has happened to you, and I feel for your child. But, even if everything goes well, the social stigmas will be ridiculous, so keep quiet. Hopefully everything will be OK, and you and your little girl can have a good life without the past haunting you both forever.