Any suggestions/advice?

I feel dumb and irresponsible posting this on here, but I need help. I got drunk and had unprotected sex with this boy I’ve been talking to for a while now on april 24th. The 25th I started what I think was my period, but it was very light and only lasted 2 days. Now I’ve been peeing a lot, feeling nauseated, gaining weight, and eating enough to feed a whole family. I dont want to go to my mom because I’ve had a scare before, and she was dissapointed enough with one. Any suggestions/advice?

Answer #1

your most likley pregnant and its too late to prevent it from happeneing now so if you dodnt want a baby, youll need to learn about and then consider an abortion or possibly adoption to find out if your pregnant take a pregnancy test 2-3 weeks after you had sex (any sooner and the results won’t be accurate) in the morning with your first pee is the best time and take it when your period is due alternatively, see a doctor for a blood test this will both let you find out quicker and give you more accurate results and remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education

Answer #2

I HIGHLY suggest contacting Planned Parenthood as soon as possible. They will help you with your problem, including all options (if you are pregnant, don’t automatically rule out adoption), AND help you to manage your health a bit wiser.

I wish you Good Luck!!

Answer #3

I had pink spotting in early pregnancy which is quite common - I highly suggest you take a pregnancy test and/or go get a blood test from your doctor.

Answer #4

8dont get an abortion. if your catholic you know why its wrong. (murder)…*

Not everyone is religious and it should be her choice.

Also if done right it won’t leave you unable to have children…backstreet abortion cause that to happen generally.

And I can tell you that some people I know that had abortions did not regret it plus she doesn’t even know if she is pregnant yet.

As for the question. You can go to a free clinic or if you are staying in the USA go to planned parenthood and ask them to help you with a pregnancy test.

I think that the stress of worrying over being pregnant is causing you to have all these symptoms since it is WAY to early for real pregnancy symptoms (only 2 weeks)

But go take a test anyway and then from there you can decide what to do.

Answer #5

I’ve got a lot of infomation if you’d like, funmail.

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