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Should I spend time on this guy?

the man-hoe I was talkin about before well he asked me adn my friend if wed have a three some with him and we said ya but I don’t know if I really want to because hes looking for a girlfriend and me and my friend are the two girls hes interested in most, and im thinkin to myself that im going to be the one whose left out. hes interested in someone who loves sex and has experiance, like me, and laura, bu thes alos looking fo rsomeone wiht a talkative personality, someone who dont lie or cheat, and im not any of those and my friend is. I mean im desperate for sex but I don’t know if I would want to do it with him because I know hes going to pick her. and to top it all off this other guy, he aint the manhoe-sih type but he really like me and has asked me to prom, and has asked me to go on a that wiht him next friday, and I know that he dont want no one else but me, but I don’t know if he would want to have sex, at least not this early. I might actually have a relationship, but it wouldnt be one with sex and thats what I want but I kinda dont want to screw the manhoe because I know he’ll pick my friend because shes way more like the girl he described that he wanted. please help what should I do?

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Answer #1

Seems like you’d be trying to be someone that he likes rather than being urself. and if you had the 3some it’d be like a competition between you and the friend on who’s going to get picked… not a good situation. I know the sex part is tempting, but why give him the enjoyment of a 3some if he’s probly just going to pick your friend instead of you, especially considering you keep calling him a man-hoe haha you can do better than that Im sure. If you want sex that bad just try to find a friend that has the same wants as you, I guarantee it wouldnt be hard to find a guy thats looking for the same thing. In my opinion thats a lot better than having this one 3some which would be like a competition and probly leave you being jealous of your friend. I bet if you brought up sex with this other kid thats asking you to prom, he’d be interested.

Answer #2

well I say you go with the guy who really likes u… sex isnt everyhting and if you dont like the guy that likes your friend and you only like him for the sex hen do not go with him … build a relationship and wait till the other guy is ready who nos maybe ud be surprised ^ ^ hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

Answer #3

DONT DO IT IF YOU DONT WANT TO! Okay, well here is the thing. You will regreat doing this if you dont want to. I dont care if you are despreat for sex. Unless YOUR the only one he wants and he’s your only one and your in love I would’t reemend it. Now if you think he’s going to pick her. Then why do it. I bet there are MANY better guys for you. Also just because she had experence wouldn’t make her better than you. Also, I’m sorry if this ever afended you but, if he only wants sex, wont he tire of the one he chooses and leave them heartboken. BE smart and leave him and get a REAL guy one that would love you for you no matter what your like and would always put your needs and feelings first. ~Erin~

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