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I tried telling my mom this but she keeps saying its my bi polar disorder. all my life I have been suffering. I can’t seem to find who I really am. But them as I got older it got worse. I am now 16 years old, For years now I have been feeling stuck. I feel alone and trapped in my body. I want to be a boy and I have known that for years.I feel like a boy stuck in a girls body. I have tried dating boys but it just don’t seem right. I love playing football and video games and all my friends think that I act like a boy. My parents ( Mom) Trys to make me wear dresses and girly stuff but I hate it. I have tried to tell her how I feel and stuff but she keeps blaming it on my bipolar disorder. I know what I want. and this is what I want. I want to be a boy but what do I do?

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Answer #1

I know you must be confused but a lot of girls are like you. Infact I have a very similar friend. Just because you are a girl doesn’t mean you should change who you are, don’t follow the crowd, be yourself even if that means being different. There is nothing wrong at all with you. xx

Answer #2

Try writing a letter and telling her. She won’t feel the need to argue with you about it saying it’s just because you’re bipolar. Explain how you’re feeling in the letter and maybe she’ll actually pay attention to what you are trying to say.

Answer #3

Sounds like your mom is in denile of your feelings. She doesn’t want to see her daughter as a boy. The only thing you can do is try to keep telling her til you get through to her. Sit her down (or write a letter) telling her how you feel and tell her how you think she must feel about you comming and telling her this. That way she might open up and tell you how she feels…you get it? I think I’m sounding confusing lol…just keep trying and talking to her, you might get thru to her.♥♥

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