Does losing your virginity hurt?

Well, I’m 14 and lost my virginity like a month ago, it hurt at first for like 8 seconds but once that’s over it feels amazing. But the second and third time did seem to hurt more then the first, but everyone is different. I’m just saying it’s nothing to fear, it’s something to enjoy.

Girls if your not ready dont :) Sex is special, a bond between two people. It should be fun, dont worry, if everything is right you’ll know. OK a bit of discomfort is normal but its nothing to panic about HONESTLY :) Dont be pressured you’ll regret it. I know I do xx

you’re too young really, think about it carefully

im only 14 & I think its too young. but the feeling that you get, you want to do it real bad.. it wont go away until you do. I’ve never done it but my boyfriend keeps pursuading me too. I don’t know what to do eitherr.

^^At 15, we all THINK we are in love, but the reality of it is, its young love, and it usually never lasts.

Losing your virginity isnt the same for every girl, and if your scared it will hurt then maybe your not as ready as you think you are!

I think that you should only make this decision if you love him.if you do,than you should do whatever you want to.

Well yes I do agree- wait until your with someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with but she wasn’t saying she wants to have sex- she was asking if it hurt.

it depends. most girls will feel a slight discomfort with first time sex. some girls feel realy bad pain and some girls feel none. It’s more likely to hurt if your hymen is still intact. this is a thin piece of skin covering the vagina entrance. Don’t worry you might not even have on.

Basically the pain is never as bad as anyone makes out. It’s usually either non existant or quite mild so dont worry about it

First of all, 15 is a bit young to have sex. You should wait at least one year. But to answer your question (and I’m a guy) my ex who stressed hurt quite a lot, but the one who relaxed said it wasn’t too bad, and really loved it the second time already.

As I said, I’m not a gal, maybe female posters can help out more here, what I said is just hearsay.

“is it safe? I mean, will I get pregnant?”

You obviously aren’t ready. It doesn’t even sound like you know how those parts even work.

you need to use condoms. ALWAYS! and you need to make sure the boy measures his penis properly and buys the right size condom to fit him otherwise it could fall off!

You need to learn all about sex before you do it or your likely to end up getting pregnant.

I want some of these answers:( so please answer my question on my profile thanks!:) add on a social site anyone:)) Thanks=)

I’m 14 and lost my virginity 5 months ago… the main thing I can say is that if you dont want to do it dont and if you are scared then dont. Make sure you give up your virginity to someone you love and trust. for me it hurt… a lot… and not just the very first time it hurt for the first few times but I still enjoyed it and was happy to give it up to the love of my life. Now it has sopped hurting and it feels amazing.

yes. it hurts for a minute or two cause when I guy enters you the rip a couple layers of skin{which is known as popping your cherry} you may or may not bleed. it just depends. I just lost my virginity today and im only 15 so ill be honest cause people fed me lied. you will be nervous just go along with it. and bite your lip or kiss him or something to help ease the pain. the first couple thrusts will hurt but after that you get used to it. I promise[:

love & rockets;; Hannah<3

I am now 23. I gave my virginity to the love of my life, who I met when we were kids (kinda like Jen Garner in 13 Going On 30) when I was 18. Everyone keeps saying “lost” my virginity. Where did it go? lol You shouldn’t get in the habit of saying that, subconsciously you lose sight of how precious it is. For the young ladies, try to wait until you are older. Just have fun being young, even if you feel you are ready hold off on it. You will never regret it, but you can def regret doing it too soon. As far as pain? My boyfriend (he’s gunna kill me for sharing this info) is 9ins. It didn’t hurt at all, it confused my vaginal muscles so they freaked a lil, but it didn’t hurt, and I didn’t bleed. Some women bleed, some don’t. Either way it’s natural. Some women feel pain for some reason, some don’t. That is also perfectly natural. There is also no way to tell whether it will hurt, or if you will bleed until you actually have sex. Sex is not something to fear. It’s a wonderful gift. Although if you are going to have sex, I don’t care what the circumstance DON’T RUSH IT. SAVOR IT. FOREPLAY. Get him off (nice and hard/erect), and if he is a great partner he will be willing to arouse you (by finger or by oral stimulation)(he/she needs to know where the clit is!). You need to be thoroughly aroused and “wet”, so it triggers your vagina that it is about to have sex and it should hurt a lot less. He should gently slide it on in, and then as others have said SLOWLY penetrate you. You can make small tears in your vagina if he is too vigorous. After the first time your vagina “awakens” to the fact that you will be having sex more often, and it loosens the muscles so they are less likely to tear in the future (unless God forbid sexual trauma occurs: rape, etc). And thusly, in the future when you have sex it should start to feel amazing. (Though sorry ladies some of you will have a rare genetic defect that disables normal pleasure receptors in the vagina, and while you will crave sex it will never feel good. My bff has this rare genetic trait so I know about it from her, and from online research). To all you lovely ladies who are considering having sex listen to your brain, the heart can be misleading and leave you blind, and your vagina? Well, we have that in common with boys… it can make us make stupid choices.. Be smart, use protection, and wait until you are ready (and older! lol), and have Mr. Right, not Mr. Right NOW. lOVE YOU! HAVE FUN BECOMING A WOMAN!

QueenB

WHYY ?? why havee sex att the age of 15 it not right stick to the snogging have sex at 15 then you fall pregnant wait a bit longer and loose it to some one special that you think you will spend the rest of your life with.