I miss him :'[

so my ex and I broke up almost a month ago now; we havent talked since then; we went out for seven months and he got a neww girll three days after we split (which hurt thee most) :[ I have to see him everyday at school and he seems happier than ever there :S should I try and talkk to him again; or would it be best if I just stay out of his life? :[[[

Answer #1

blehh its not that easy;; this guy means the world to me :[

Answer #2

get a new guy

Answer #3

omg I was in the same positinn..except I went out with the guy for a wholee yearr..well all I cann say iss just dont talk to him..some point hel regret it.and hel want you backk.hel talk to you..

Answer #4

I basically had the same problem, and it is so hard to deal with. I met this guy and he was the first guy I truely ever loved, and still is to this day. We talked on and off for about 2 years and then finally we got into a huge fight that was totally pathetic and we ended it. I thought it was just going to be another one of our “breaks” but it turns out that he didn’t think so, he got a girlfriend exactly one week after we broke up. I balled my eyes out when I found this out, I cried for most of the night when I realized crying wasnt going to get me anywhere. So I began to distract myself, I started to read books or listen to music, or clean my room more, anything to keep me occupied so he wasnt on my mind. And it worked,

he told me he was happy with me but he was even happier with this “other girl.” That hurt a lott. But lately he has been texting me telling me how his life sucks nowadays and how he misses me. So what Im trying to say is, first you need to try to get over him, distract yourself with other things you like to do, and if thats not enough, try new things. Trust me, it may take a long time but you will find the strength to get over him. And just live your life happily, remember liveing well is the best revenge on a guy. What he did to you will eventually come around and smack him in the face, he’ll pay for what he did, just like my ex is paying for what he did. I hope I helped and good luck with everything.

Answer #5

Hun, he broke up with you for a reason. He didnt want to be with you anymore. Doesnt the fact that him getting another girlfriend 3 days later tell you that? Move on! With SO many boys out there, why waste your life on just one?

Answer #6

Okay im going through pretty much the same exact thing…but umm I was with my ex for um 2 years. He moved on 4 days later I was upset and I still am because today is exactly 3 weeks. I hate them both. I try to flirt with other guys and bring up other guys in front of him to make him mad… I don’t know if thatll work for you, but it kinda does me I try to text my ex he text back … a little more than he should so you could try but dont get your hopes up guys lie and they are dumb so yeah I don’t know maybe you could try but if he doesnt want to talk to dont pressure him he wont like you at all but he may be happier, he will realize he lost something good just dont go back to him good luck

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