What if my friend and I might be pregnant?

on the 13th dec me and my best friend went out like we do every saturday but this saturday her boyfriend and 1 of his friends came,, he is 15 and his mate is 16 they where drinking but me and my friend wern’t then they offered us some but we only drunk like a mouthful and that was it, and the next thing we knew we where on the floor, they must have spiked us or something because we only had a tiny bit to drink and they must have done something to us like because when we eventually went back to our normall selves we where layed up against a wall and my pants where undun and my mate’s top was showing her bra, but we normally have our periods at the same time every month( end ov month) bu in december we didnt have our periods my mate has dumped her boyfriend for doing what he and his mate did to us and we have informed our parents and they have informed the police I think, but could this meen we are pregnant, I meen we are 13 and if we are pregnant then thats the rest of our lives ruined, we aren’t ready for kids as we are literally children our selves!! please don’t lecture us on it’s our fault we drunk it and did what we did without protection so you deserve the consequences because we dont, because we didnt know the drink was spiked or whatever and we didnt know what was going to happen to us when we had drunk it and even if they did do anything to us it was there fault - they didnt use protection, if we are pregnant (we only told are parents that they had spiked us) they will b mortified and will who knows what they would do to us! if any 1 has any advice on what they think we should do then please tell me xxx

Answer #1

First of all it is not your fault your 13 and you experiment when your young you should be having fun and trying to drink so it’s not your fault or your friends fault if anything it’s your boyfriend and his mates fault and I understand what you are going through because I have been in a similar situation. It’s really good you understand that your still young and you are not ready for a child because you are literally one yourself. I suggest telling your parents because honestly it was not your fault you did not now what was going to happen and I’m sure they will be very understanding about it. If your not comfortable telling your parents there are free clinics where you can get tested for pregnancy and stds without your parents knowing. If you are preganat you have a few options you can get a abortion or have the baby and keep it or put it up for adoption. It’s a really bad spot to be in when your so young and it wa snot your fault and you should not blame yourself what they did was wrong your not at fault they are. in my experience I would tell your parents they will understand and will help you in every possible way they can. anyways goood luck hope you and your friend can get through it and I know you guys will.

Answer #2

Dear badxxgurl, Okay I’m a little concerned with the adults here. You should have been brought to the hospital right away to have rape kits done, testing for AIDs and STDs. You should have been given the morning after pill and both of these guys should have been arrested??? Both of you need to go to your doctor, a health clinic ASAP…like “NOW” and tell them of your situation. The whole thing was treated badly from the beginning and you both need proper help. Sue…good luck

Answer #3

ok, I agree with sue90 and overit and drama kk. go to the hospital/health clinic, have some rape tests done and stds and aids tests done. tell your parents about the fact that you and your mate are suspicous about being raped and I pray to god that you arent pregnant. or your mate, and I hope that those two guys get arrested for what they did. either way, they will still get introuble for they are older than you two and they gave you alchohal or something to knock you out/get you drunk I hope all turns out well, and that nothing is wrong. -coup

Answer #4

with who ???

Answer #5

im really sorry for what happend I think you should just pray xoxox Cassidy

Answer #6

GO AND CHOPP HIS THING OFF THEN GO AND SAY YOU WAS RAPED AND THAT WAS IN SELF DEFENSE!

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