I'm 19, a college student, and I cannot find a job. I'm really broke and poor ( I can't even buy new shoes! and my old ones are all moldy...eww). Well I'm struggling really bad. I've been looking for a job for the past two months and everyone knows that it is difficult, especially here in GA. I am having no such luck and I am desperate for money. So, I've been thinking about getting into the escort business. I could make a good amount of money, but do I necessarily have to have sex with the people? I mean, I do have a boyfriend. I'll be doing this for me and him and my family cause we are all struggling...badly. This is the last resort. If I don't have some money by the time the term is, I'll be living on the streets. Advice anyone?
LEARN what to do to get good clients. Don't just stand out on a street corner or post on craigslist. IF you research thoroughly first and then have methods in place for both determining the safety of new clients and for getting out of a bad situation should it occur, escorting is relatively safe. Someone posted about a bad experience on this board, but there are plenty of people, and I am one of them, who have NEVER had a bad experience. A lot of people who don't know what they are talking about like to scare people away from things like this.
It is great money, especially at your age. You do NOT need to be a supermodel, there is room for all sorts of women. And it CAN be enjoyable, depending on your personality. You need to think about whether you can handle sex without emotional attachment. If you can, this is a good option to make some money until you learn job skills for a legal career that pays a living. If you can't, you may want to consider sex work that doesn't involve intercourse, such as erotic massage.
Please don't listen to people who don't know what they are talking about. Who knows if the person who posted with the 6 men story is even being honest. If they are, that is an absolute worst case scenario, VERY rare, and can happen to a woman anyway, outside of whether they are escorting. Don't let one possibly true story totally dissuade you.
There are books about how to safely be an escort. You can also research online from reliable sources. You may want to start with an agency, because they will help you get and vet clients. They also may help you with your appearance if you really have absolutely no money and need some new shoes or nice clothes/lingerie/nakeup to start.
If you go out on your own, just make sure you handle your safety first. Always be ready to walk away from any client you have any bad feeling about (this is why junkies get beat up; because they ignore their sixth sense in the quest for fix money). Use online verification services to verify the identity of a prospective client. Try to build up a base of regulars that you've seen before and know are safe. You can also sometimes get referrals from past clients or from other escorts whose specialties are different than yours.
These are all common in the industry. For myself, I've ALWAYS met new clients in public first. It gives me greater peace of mind.
There are also ways of avoiding LE (law enforcement). Incall is actually safer than outcall (common misconception of people who don't know anything about escorting is the other way around) because you control the territory. You can have a friend or boyfriend check on you or espect a call at a certain time. LE is more likely to do stings in their own hotel rooms, set up beforehand, than at an escort's place. Also, you do not want to tell the client the incall location beforehand. Tell him the general area and then call his cell phone just a few minutes before the meeting, to tell him the exact address. That way LE does not have time to set anything up.
These are just a few tips from someone who has actually done this. I think you should take advice from those who know, not those who are merely speculating. If you come back and check this board: You are welcome to ask additional questions and I'll try to answer them to the best of my ability.
I was gonna say go for it, till I read maebee's comment, probably me being a guy, gettin hurt never occured to me.
it is a very serious move, even if you are planning, not that its bad, but it will be life altering. how sure are are you about being able to maintain the same emotional bond with your boyfriend after he starts to drag your work in baseless arguments plus you are gonna play huge gamble with your self confidence, escort job is a quick fix I am sure you wouldnt want to do it forever.
I think you need to more creative with your life, I am sure there are ample opportunities around you if you just take notice. every gap is an alternative, if you are ready to play with ego and become a sex worker might as well use the same security in your head and pick up odd jobs which no one wants to do. * dog walks * mobile cigg and candy, just like pop corn, its a running business , you can make fortune in parks and public gathering * learn some skills * " home made food, delivered to your home "
just random thoughts, you dont always need money to make money. trust yourself if its that important, you will surely figure a way out.
just trying to show you the other side of the coin, hope it helped, as intended.
cheers !
Becoming a sex worker of any kind is not simple and cannot be summed up in just a few paragraphs by an amateur writer who isn’t a real escort. Such vague or misleading information as you find in sites like Yahoo Answers puts women in real danger. More and more women are entering the escort industry, but there’s not enough education on how to do it safely and discreetly or how to reach your goals. Or its impossible to find the right info because of crap like this article drowning it out, and on “so-called” respectable news sites. I teach women how to be safe and to respect them selves and how to attract respectful high-end clients. I teach how to screen and background-check clients and keep your adult life secret, as well as improve your product to earn more money. Lessons are online or in person. For more info please follow this link [link removed]
heres a bit of advice little money, shop at opshops they have both old and new clothing for extremly cheap you can pick up a good pair of shoes for around $2 somtimes even 50cents same goes for clothing if you want to be an escort your boyfreind needs to know about it and agree to it otherwise youd just be huryting him and the relationship and to be an escort you need to be 18 or older if your not, and they take you the place is illegally operating and probably involved with prostituing girls, drugs and crime and for jobs, look for places who are hiring or need new workers or also only do the escort thing if you can live with yourself and if you wont be ashamed of it later on because money isnt worth degrading yourself for
im opting to become an escort, my first interview is this evening with the owner. im nervous, because im 145 pound and 5'4 so im not sure if I can be successful in something like this... I have a c-section scar...and some stretch marks. do you think this will make a difference of how much money I will make or is it just about getting the job done? what is the physical up keep of a sex worker to maintain themselves? what do I keep control of the situation when I do go out that first night?
parrotperson, I'm thinking about doing it too, I have an interview with an agency next week actually. I know that in some cases - most cases - sex will be involved, I also understand that since having sex for money is illegal agencies do not have pricing on the "extras" aside from the date aspect of escorting. How much is the normal price to charge for these extra services?
Becoming an escort is not a bad idea. This is depend on your self. You can also earn lots of money as an escort, this is just like a fun and business. You know i am also a escort girl from Manchester providing incall and outcall services in Manchester. If you planed to provide escorting than you can.
Definitely. As long as you do it in a classy and safe way, it can be a wonderful and excited business venture. Phoenix Escorts [link removed]
If you are doing this because of financial problems, have you considered getting a loan to tide you over? If not, I say go for it.
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Hey there was liking to know if you got into escorting and if so how is it. I'm looking to do this.
Thanks
