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I'm So Alone

My friend is always asking me, “What’s wrong with you?” I don’t talk and she thinks I’m “EMO.” I used to be, but not that much anymore. I’m failing my grades, but I try my best and try to think positive. When she says that emo people suck, I feel kinda hurt. She says she doesn’t think she wants to be friends with me anymore. It’s not like my problems have anything to do with her. I try to be happy, but she says I’m not the person I used to be before. I guess that’s true, but still… Aren’t friends supposed to be there for you when you want to pull through something? I trusted her so much and I really don’t feel like making anymore friends. I feel really depressed and don’t know what to do. I don’t want to talk to her about what I’m really feeling because she never listens to me. And she keeps ranting about how she wants to go back to Canada. It’s so annoying! Any advice? It’s been happening for over a week already. I don’t feel much hope in our future friendship anymore. Should I keep listening to her and just “put up with it”, or go daydreaming on my own?

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Answer #1

Yes friends are suppose to be there for you, but you never know maybe it hurts her to see you like this. You even said yourself that you are feeling depressed and a couple of laughs with your friend won’t change that. Sounds like something deeper is going on that’s causing you not to be yourself. Have you talked to your parents about it? Having some friends who went through depressions after break up or family issues, it took more than a circle of friends, you may need to talk to someone professionally to help and it’s nothing wrong with that. Not seeking help is. If you want to vent more or talk just funmail me. Hope things get better with you and your friend don’t give up on her yet, she’s just as confused as you are. You may need some time apart ,but if you’ve been through as much as you say you have, you have to ask yourself the question is it worth saving. Good friendship don’t come around often. However no relationship is perfect we all run into our issues at some point or it wouldn’t be life.

Answer #2

I agree Your friend is making you feel worse, she should be trying to relate and listening to you. Not saying that your not the same perhaps theres a reason to that. & try to keep your head up your young you have so many hings to look forward too. I bet in a month or two its all going to be over. Stay up. Be positive dont let anything bring you down if you say your sad your going to be sad. If you say that nothings working and your grades are falling then its going to happen. Say screw everything improve dont hide behind a rock because your going to be forgotten and most important you’ll forget about your self. Be Happy =]

Answer #3

I dont think that there is a true answer for this but I will tell you this

if she was your friend she would be there for you, but obviously she isnt a great friend, and I can tell the reason your so down is because of her, if she didnt act like this you’d be fine, but its okay because you shouldnt have people like that in your life anyways

Answer #4

shes not your friend!! friend the ones who cry and die for you who are with you in your time of need sweety sometime theres people we dont need in ourlife

Answer #5

Well first of all dont label yourself, and second just dump her, shes not worth the extra emotional stress on yourself, if she doesnt want to help you

Answer #6

Find another friend! and who cares if you’re “EMO” that should just be the kind of music you listen to it doesnt define who you are. You’re probably just in a difficult age right now, just try not to stress over the small things. be greatful for all the good things in your life. dump your friend, a real friend sticks by you no matter what and especially if you’re going thru hard times. if your emo music is what makes you happy then dont stop listening to it just because other people think it sucks. be who you are because thats the only way you’re ever going to be happy.

Answer #7

I think instead of having her ask the questions, you ask them. ask her why dont you listen to my problems when I clearly listen to all of yours. and tell her that people can have things wrong that just arent explainable in that specific time and place, and she should just accept it and support you and try to figure things out like a team. and if she persists with everything even after all that, then she wasnt meant to be your friend anyways and honestly this might have happened eventually.

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