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Why do I feel like my boyfriend is always cheating?

Ok. I got a Huge Problem. Im Insecured and I dont know why. I’m in a serious relationship now heading for 2 years. Hes great & awsome. And I love him. He hardly lies to me and he tells me afterwards whenever he does. He never cheated on me either. Why do I feel liek he always does? I think it was because I had an ex-boyfriend before and he cheated on me & I fell for him. I think I just feel like my present boyfriend might do that to me. I need help. I’m so strict on him sometimes that it seems that he doesnt have a life. I dont liek him gonig out a lot because I feel like he might check a girl out! He understands that im scared to lose him. But I think its getting out of control. I want him to feel free not locked up in a prison chamber. Help me please. How do I stop feeling that hes cheating on me when I know he isnt. Please. I need serious help. Is there anything I can do?

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Answer #1

It definately has a lot to do with your past relationship. At this point he has to play a big role in trying to keep you secure. You also have to fight what you’re feeling inside, get involved in other activities, go out with the girls, keep yourself as busy as possible. You can start by talking to him. Usually our previous experiences play a huge role on how we view things and if your ex gave you a hard relationship, you’re sub consciously building a wall around you ready for battle just in case something happens.

Answer #2

uhh… you know what? talk to him. i don’t really know what to say.

Answer #3

I feel the same way about my current boyfriend… I tend to cause arguments just to get him to say he hasnt done anything naturally that would drive someone away but now a days I just think to my self you know deep down inside in your heart he’s not doing anything, and if you dont than you need not be with him…

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